I alwaz used to tell ' tears are so valuable...' dont waste it for him/her .. also for silly things.. The same person who told this cries often.. some people usually wont cry .. or they may have enough bold to face the things .. in general for two things the tears would come: first is pain ie.. when someone beats or when u fall and blood comes..'coz you cant tolerate the pain. Second, when sumone hurts by their words , scolds you or someone cheats you etc.. the latter one it shows how people took those things.. it depends! some people cry and somepeople dont.
When we talk deeply abt this pain we can say it is : physically and mentally.. In love affairs whn our beloved ones rejects or didnt accepts us means.. automatically tears would come after getting into our room, eventhough when we act so strong.. In this case some hearts broke into pieces and felt thats all its over. Some people would try again and Some people tooks revenge. There is also another category of people, they cant abl to forget their loved ones.. whn they remember they start crying,, when some memory flashes it even increases. They wont cry in front of everyone,, they cry inside, in their heart and it sounds high... It is really dangerous and it's also tough to identify..thts what we used to tell 'pain in heart' .. memories of loved ones have even a tendency to kill us.. i mean they cant able to concentrate on other things.. somepeople 'll live in their memories and somepeople they cant abl to bear it.. they 'll be oscillating between things where to live past or present or in future what they dreamt.. this is really unjustifiable..
Secondly, physically.... pain in our body. it might be headache, or some of disease or killing disease like Rheumatism.. which kills day by day.. Its a bone disease.. technically speaking it is a chronic autoimmune disease with inflammation of the joints and marked deformities; i.e. a painful disorder of joints Here the pain is classified as mild, medium, high, very high and extreme (untolerable) .The pain killers are used to mask the brain form pain. It erodes the joints ie.. the synovial fluid becomes dry.. Simple the concept is just like putting an oil on the machine whn oil dries up the machine makes sound and becomes slow.. here the pain occurs and cant able to do daily works like brushing, bathing, eating and even knocking the door. Imagine what about playing, writing.. and working. In all these our body parts involves particularly joints.. finger joints too.. Identifying this early is really good... Prevention is better than cure!!!
We say usually, it comes to aged people but nw it occurs in all age.. somedays there'll be no pain and somedays the pain which is inevitable and excruciating.. ie we cannot predict the pain.. Please dont ask these people to do heavy works ... Just help them unknowingly i mean taking coffee for them, writing letters and notes.. Asking help is quite common.. but when they didnt do.. it's the bigger pain than the actual pain.. It really hurts when i cant able to help people when they ask me to do some work.. when i think i cant able to do.. its really hurts .. Why God punished such people by offering this rheumatoid arthritis in earlier itself ..???
