Its all about you

                           Life is  not about choices or options if yu loose one,yu can adjust with another or compensate . Its about values.. How yu value the people. The respect towards them makes how yu value the people. Even though we are fully known about our beloved ones, friends, they deserve some respect not because of their qualities or talents but we acknowledge them. People can say, he/ she is ma friend  i know him/her completely and as soon as if their relationship ends, they start  highlighting their negative things. This shows how cheap yu  are. Even though  if you know everything  about them you should keep silent, this tells how yu tolerate the things happening near yu. You can easily say i can adjust things that happens near  to me  but practically your heart will not get satisfied easily, Questions like Why he did like that? why she hided from me? Whats wrongs in me? Why this is happening to me? Our Emotions talks more than our brain you need to answer and convince them,   not convince but accepting the truth from our beloved ones apart from reality.

                         In life if you go on continuous search of  BETTER, you will get lost. Yes its true. say if  any character that you are mingling, does not fits or synchronize with you, you will dump her/him and move on.. At that time you will not consider other's thoughts and feelings. Ofcourse you not doing this wantedly, but you forgot to consider it. Your speed of searching new ones overtakes your past relationship and You keep on moving in search of your better and you will say ' i didnt cheat anyone or betray them, just i left them'.. How cool answer it is.. The answer is you cheated your heart by telling bye bye and you failed and forgot to listen your heart and emotions.If you lose anythings dont convince yourself , instead accept the truth and live, attain  what you wanted to be. Get satisfied and value your values as it deserves because one day if you think about your life that how you lived you should feel proud about your attitude, instead of being guilty

Various Visions..

                                                                                                                                                                                 Will you name it wt kind of relationship it is !?.. its just not a girl thing or guy's.. but about the thinking ie, how people see us in thier vision. Yes ofcourse its about society, its easy to talk and let our words, without knowing the actual story . what ever they say, they will pass and go on . Its ma life and i have to live , have to tolerate all those things. So what is soceity and who is soceity. First i thought its just me and group of persons like me. Then i found that they are group of people but not like me. Their vision is different, their understanding, thinking, the way they see things differs a lot. How of many of people are like us. Everyone is different and unique, no more comparisons and compromises. Again its me who perceive things and adjust.

                             Next time if i become one of the members in the soceity and the same thing if i did ie  misunderstood the people.. then what the meaning of the words in the above that i wrote. We people are seeing things just a thing , just as outline not as deeper and looking the inner side of the relationship. This is wt, we stand behind. Everyday we met new people, You cannot say, i will never talk to anyone except ma papa, mama, siblings and ma close frnds only, also yu cannot be like that,  'coz We live in earth not in seperate galaxy or an island . . Socialising is increasing, in the name of modern culture and yu will stand in a point that yu have to talk and adjust with people. This is wt happening now. You meet people, just as known person , friend, enemy, trespassers. Its a common thing. Here ma point is, see the things from their side, i mean not as audience but as a player .. You may realise , it's a new dimension and came to know many things: a mixture emotions, laugh, cry, sympathy and actual joy of enjoying. So stop critising people, take a break and start looking things as real and cut down your own imagination.!